Live-in Care for Couples

One carer, both of you, in the home you share
Live-in care for couples means one dedicated carer living in your home and supporting you both, so you can stay together in the place you have shared. Support is shaped around both people’s needs, even when those needs are quite different, and couples live-in care starts from £295 a day, plus your carer’s weekly food allowance. As a family-run agency registered with the Care Quality Commission and rooted in Hertfordshire, we offer the same standard of care we would want for our own loved ones.
What is live-in care for couples?
For many couples, the hardest part of a conversation about care is often not the help itself. It is the fear of being separated. A move into residential care can mean living apart, or one person moving while the other stays behind. Live-in care answers that differently: a trained carer lives with you and supports you both, each of you with your own care plan, delivered by the same familiar person. The right support comes to you, and home stays home.

How It Works Day to Day
One carer lives in your home and supports your usual routine as a couple, from getting up, washing and meals to companionship, appointments and quiet help around the house. Because live-in care is a 24-hour arrangement, there is someone trusted nearby through the night as well as the day. Carers need proper rest and a daily break, so we plan this into the care and arrange cover where needed, and practical tasks are taken care of quietly so your home stays calm and comfortable.
When Your Needs Are Different from Each Other
Most couples come to us with uneven needs, and that is exactly what a couples care plan is for. Each of you has your own care plan, reviewed in its own right, delivered by the same familiar carer. Support can be shaped mostly around one person while keeping an eye on the other’s wellbeing too, and the balance can shift over time as needs change.
What Live-in Care for Couples Costs, and How to Try It
Couples live-in care starts from £295 a day, plus your carer’s weekly food allowance. That is one arrangement supporting two people, which is part of why many couples find it compares well against the cost of two residential places, quite apart from what it means to stay together. Regulated home care is VAT exempt, so there is nothing to add on top, and every family receives a written quote confirming the exact rate before anything begins. Our care funding guide explains the help available with the cost, and our live-in care costs guide sets out what shapes the price.
You do not need to decide everything at once. Many couples begin with a short introductory period and continue only if it feels right. There is no long-term contract, and every package carries our 90-day risk-free guarantee, so you can cancel at any time.
Care Built on Trust
We take time to carefully match each couple with a carer whose personality, approach and values fit you both, because the right carer for a couple has to fit two personalities, not one. A good match builds trust, eases daily life and lays the foundation for consistent, confident care at home. Because the same carer is there day after day, that continuity becomes a quiet source of reassurance for the whole family.
Because we are a regulated provider, every carer works to our standards, trained, supervised and overseen by us, with a registered manager accountable for the quality of care. That is the real difference between regulated live-in care and an introduction agency, which simply introduces a self-employed carer and then steps back.


Live-in Care for Couples May Include:
- 24-hour presence from a trained live-in carer, for both of you
- A separate care plan for each of you, delivered by the same carer
- Help with bathing, dressing and mobility where each of you needs it
- Meal planning and home-cooked food you can still enjoy together
- Medication reminders and oversight for two different routines
- Companionship, and protected time for each of you to rest and see friends
- Light housekeeping and daily routines
- Liaison with family and healthcare professionals for you both
When couples choose live-in care
Some of the most common situations we help with: one of you needs daily support and the other has quietly become a full-time carer, and is tired. You both need some help, but with different things, one with personal care, the other with meals, medication or moving safely. One of you is living with dementia, and the other wants calm, familiar routines rather than a move. Or you have been told one of you needs residential care, and you want an honest look at the alternative before deciding.
Staying together, or moving apart?
For couples, the comparison with a care home is rarely just about cost or facilities. A residential move can mean separate rooms, separate floors or even separate homes, depending on what each of you needs. With live-in care, your surroundings, routines, neighbours and pets all stay part of daily life, and you stay together. Both options can work well depending on your situation, and we are always glad to talk them through honestly. Our side-by-side guide to live-in care or a care home sets the two out in detail.
Live-in care for couples across Hertfordshire
We provide live-in care for couples across Hertfordshire, including St Albans, Harpenden, Radlett and Shenley, Hemel Hempstead, Berkhamsted, Tring, Hitchin, Hertford and Welwyn and Hatfield, along with the surrounding towns and villages. Being a local, family-run agency means we understand the area and can offer care that feels close to home in every sense.

Live-in Care for Couples FAQs
How much does live-in care for a couple cost?
Couples live-in care starts from £295 a day, plus a weekly food allowance for your carer. That is one arrangement supporting two people. Regulated home care is VAT exempt, so there is nothing to add on top, and every family receives a written quote confirming the exact rate before anything begins.
How quickly can live-in care start?
The right timing depends on your situation and on matching you with a suitable carer. We will talk through your needs and explain realistic timescales when you contact us, so you know what to expect.
How does live-in care for a couple work day to day?
One dedicated carer lives in your home and supports both of your usual routines, from getting up, washing and meals to companionship, appointments and quiet help around the house. Because two people are being supported, we take particular care over matching, and there is someone trusted nearby through the night as well as the day.
What happens when the live-in carer needs a break?
Live-in carers need regular rest and time off during the day, and cover is arranged so support continues safely. We will explain how this works as part of planning your care.
What if only one of us needs care?
That is very common. Each of you has your own care plan, so support can be shaped mostly around one person while keeping an eye on the other’s wellbeing too, and the balance can shift over time as needs change.
Can a live-in carer support a couple where one person has dementia?
Yes. Our carers can support people living with dementia or Alzheimer’s, providing calm, familiar routines at home, while making sure the other partner is supported and able to rest. You can read more on our dementia and Alzheimer’s care page.
What is the difference between live-in care and a care home?
With live-in care, support comes to you one to one in your own home, so your surroundings, routines, neighbours and pets all stay part of daily life, and couples can stay together rather than face a move apart. In a care home, support is shared across a team among a group of residents in a communal setting. Both can work well depending on what someone needs and prefers, and we are always glad to talk both options through honestly so you can decide what feels right.
Does a live-in carer need their own room?
Yes. A live-in carer needs their own bedroom and somewhere to take proper rest and breaks during the day, so the arrangement works best where there is a spare room. Beyond that, most homes need very little to get ready. We will talk through the practical side with you beforehand, so everyone is comfortable with how it will work day to day.
Will my carer help look after my pets?
Pets are often an important part of feeling settled at home, so we are glad to support people who have them. As part of live-in care, your carer can help with everyday pet routines such as feeding, fresh water and gentle exercise like short walks, where this is practical and agreed in your care plan. Keeping a much-loved pet close by is one of the comforts of staying in your own home, and we are happy to talk through how this fits around the rest of your support.
Can my carer come with me on holiday or trips away?
For many people, one of the joys of live-in care is being able to carry on with the things they enjoy, including time away. Where it is practical and agreed in advance, your carer can accompany you on a holiday or a trip to visit family, so the familiar support you rely on each day continues while you are away from home. We talk through the details beforehand, including travel and any particular needs, so the time away feels relaxed and well supported.
Do you provide live-in care in my area?
We provide live-in care across Hertfordshire, including St Albans, Harpenden, Radlett, Shenley, Hemel Hempstead, Berkhamsted, Tring, Hitchin and Hertford, as well as the surrounding towns and villages.
Do we have to commit long term?
No. There are no long-term or fixed-term contracts, and every package carries our 90-day risk-free guarantee: you can cancel at any time.
Can we try live-in care before deciding?
Yes. Many families begin with a short period of live-in care, often as respite or while a family carer is away, and continue only if it feels right. With no long-term contract and the 90-day guarantee, trying it carries no commitment beyond the period you choose.
How to Get Started
- Think about what type of help would make life easier
- Check if you or your loved one might be eligible for support
- Speak with us. We can guide you through options and next steps
Arranging Live-in Care Is Simple
Starting care can feel like a big step. We keep it calm and straightforward, and we are here from your very first call to help you explore what might feel right, whether that is with us or simply pointing you in the right direction.
1. Talk to us
Get in touch by phone or request a callback. We will listen, answer your questions and help you understand the options, so you can decide in your own time.
2. A home visit and initial consultation
We arrange a visit to understand your routines, your home and what matters most to you. Together we agree an initial consultation and shape the support that feels right.
3. Your care begins
A small, familiar team starts your care, arriving at the agreed times and staying involved as your needs change. We remain your trusted adviser throughout.
Whenever you are ready, we are here to help.
